You’re an ambitious, thoughtful person who knows how to get things done.
You’ve already made it through some rough patches, managed to stay afloat, and even had some big successes (definitely something to celebrate!).
But now you're stuck at a major crossroads...(and maybe even beginning to wonder how you'll find your way forward again).
You’ve already made it through some rough patches, managed to stay afloat, and even had some big successes (definitely something to celebrate!).
But now you're stuck at a major crossroads...(and maybe even beginning to wonder how you'll find your way forward again).
It's okay. I've been there too.
Hi. I'm Nancy Martin.
I work with people who are navigating a big thorny change - whether it's a career layoff, a career overhaul, an advancement, a breakup, or other major challenge or roadblock.
I help my clients unwind what might be holding them back, and figure out the next steps, so they can confidently move forward with ease and calm, and can truly make their life count!
I work with people who are navigating a big thorny change - whether it's a career layoff, a career overhaul, an advancement, a breakup, or other major challenge or roadblock.
I help my clients unwind what might be holding them back, and figure out the next steps, so they can confidently move forward with ease and calm, and can truly make their life count!
But I have to say: This wasn’t the work I'd envisioned for myself…
Twenty-five years ago, I was an industry engineer, sitting in countless meetings and tromping around large industrial plants. I led plant construction and engineering teams on pollution reduction strategies, advised senior management on environmental issues, and sat on regional and national policy groups, among other things. I also spent time in management for a tech startup and coordinated a high-profile public-private partnership.
But growing into that first role definitely wasn’t a slam dunk.
When I started, I was a super timid young woman. And before I knew it, I was thrust into a high-visibility role with tons of responsibility. A lot of the time, I was the only woman in the room...or roaming about those gargantuan plants.
Was I intimidated? At first? Heck yeah.
But I grew into my steel-toed shoes, hardhat, and no-frills navy suit. And learned how to call the shots.
I loved so much about my job - the challenge, the complexity, and how I was blazing a trail through uncharted territory as a woman.
One day I took my Fortune 200 CEO aside and let him know he'd presented some (not-so-accurate :) facts to a room full of other big company execs.
When he called me up to his office later that day, I thought for sure he was about to hand me a pink slip. Instead, he offered me one of his prized ball caps. The ones he offered all his "favorite" employees.
(I found out later, by the way, that he'd added me to a shortlist to be his assistant...right about the time he was tapped to head up our 30,000 person company.)
The thing is, this job was my training ground for:
Speaking truth to power
Asserting myself
Taking risks
Even - especially - when the stakes were high, when I felt shaky, or when I might fall flat on my face.
But growing into that first role definitely wasn’t a slam dunk.
When I started, I was a super timid young woman. And before I knew it, I was thrust into a high-visibility role with tons of responsibility. A lot of the time, I was the only woman in the room...or roaming about those gargantuan plants.
Was I intimidated? At first? Heck yeah.
But I grew into my steel-toed shoes, hardhat, and no-frills navy suit. And learned how to call the shots.
I loved so much about my job - the challenge, the complexity, and how I was blazing a trail through uncharted territory as a woman.
One day I took my Fortune 200 CEO aside and let him know he'd presented some (not-so-accurate :) facts to a room full of other big company execs.
When he called me up to his office later that day, I thought for sure he was about to hand me a pink slip. Instead, he offered me one of his prized ball caps. The ones he offered all his "favorite" employees.
(I found out later, by the way, that he'd added me to a shortlist to be his assistant...right about the time he was tapped to head up our 30,000 person company.)
The thing is, this job was my training ground for:
Speaking truth to power
Asserting myself
Taking risks
Even - especially - when the stakes were high, when I felt shaky, or when I might fall flat on my face.
But then - at the age of 27 - my world was ROCKED by a series of life-changing events.
I lost both my parents within a five-month period, and a serious relationship tanked at the same time.
Suddenly everything around me seemed to be collapsing. I felt completely lost, afraid, and defeated.
I didn't know what to do... so I did the only thing I could think of: buried myself in work and crawled back into my shell.
I lost both my parents within a five-month period, and a serious relationship tanked at the same time.
Suddenly everything around me seemed to be collapsing. I felt completely lost, afraid, and defeated.
I didn't know what to do... so I did the only thing I could think of: buried myself in work and crawled back into my shell.
Those were dark days, but I realized something rather remarkable…
Even though my support system had disappeared, I was still standing.
After tons of soul-searching, I eventually picked myself back up. That's when I noticed I felt STRONGER, more comfortable, and more CONFIDENT than ever before.
Even though my support system had disappeared, I was still standing.
After tons of soul-searching, I eventually picked myself back up. That's when I noticed I felt STRONGER, more comfortable, and more CONFIDENT than ever before.
Turns out, I could survive anything life threw at me. I trusted that I'd be okay - no matter what kind of big, scary, life-altering events I encountered.
And you bet I had plenty of those moments and BIG shake ups - exciting ones and t-t-terrifying ones...
Like when I decided to extricate myself from "the golden handcuffs" after nearly 15 years with the same company. I didn't know where I was headed (THAT was freakin' scary); all I knew was it no longer felt right and it was time to move on.
Then I got married, moved across country, switched fields (I'd already traded my construction gear for power suits, but this time I transitioned into a business development gig at a tech startup.), had a couple miscarriages and a rough childbirth, raised my sweet child, tragically lost my beloved brother, launched my girl into the world...and that's just the short list! :)
Like when I decided to extricate myself from "the golden handcuffs" after nearly 15 years with the same company. I didn't know where I was headed (THAT was freakin' scary); all I knew was it no longer felt right and it was time to move on.
Then I got married, moved across country, switched fields (I'd already traded my construction gear for power suits, but this time I transitioned into a business development gig at a tech startup.), had a couple miscarriages and a rough childbirth, raised my sweet child, tragically lost my beloved brother, launched my girl into the world...and that's just the short list! :)
After all that, I knew in my heart I could do anything. I could handle change. Even though change is rarely a breeze - no matter how big or small.
But change wasn't done with me. Life tried, once again, to knock me off my feet...
After staying home to raise my daughter, I was trying to find my place back into the workforce. I'd retrained and amassed certifications, credentials, and lots of impressive letters after my name. I was READY to work again!
Right in the midst of interviewing, I was hit by a battery of debilitating chronic symptoms. Everything from brain fog and fatigue to dizzy spells and what felt like my insides were literally on fire - and two years of chronic back pain.
(Oh, and did I mention about the pickup truck that did a 360 into my car while I was driving across a bridge one day...just as my back had finally healed?)
After staying home to raise my daughter, I was trying to find my place back into the workforce. I'd retrained and amassed certifications, credentials, and lots of impressive letters after my name. I was READY to work again!
Right in the midst of interviewing, I was hit by a battery of debilitating chronic symptoms. Everything from brain fog and fatigue to dizzy spells and what felt like my insides were literally on fire - and two years of chronic back pain.
(Oh, and did I mention about the pickup truck that did a 360 into my car while I was driving across a bridge one day...just as my back had finally healed?)
After facing and surviving what was a daunting, seemingly hopeless chain of events, I felt like I'd somehow been transformed.
Working with the right doctors, engaging in some serious self-reflection, and making some monumental changes in my life, I felt healthy, strong, totally recharged...and more spiritually and emotionally rooted.
And this whole time, something amazing was brewing…
I'd started mentoring people - the younger engineers from my corporate days, a newly divorced Iranian mom trying to break into a not-so-welcoming workforce, a Southern Sudanese refugee just attempting to survive and understand a culture that was completely different from the one she knew.
Later I threw myself into leadership training and public speaking. I noticed that just about everyone coming into that training was craving a way to ease the terror (like I'd once had) of publicly telling their stories. Time and again, I found myself fervently drawn to mentoring. Before long I was asked to lead the group.
That fascination with helping people move through fear, grow their confidence, step into leadership, and powerfully and eloquently tell their stories seemed to be pulling me toward some greater purpose.
I'd started mentoring people - the younger engineers from my corporate days, a newly divorced Iranian mom trying to break into a not-so-welcoming workforce, a Southern Sudanese refugee just attempting to survive and understand a culture that was completely different from the one she knew.
Later I threw myself into leadership training and public speaking. I noticed that just about everyone coming into that training was craving a way to ease the terror (like I'd once had) of publicly telling their stories. Time and again, I found myself fervently drawn to mentoring. Before long I was asked to lead the group.
That fascination with helping people move through fear, grow their confidence, step into leadership, and powerfully and eloquently tell their stories seemed to be pulling me toward some greater purpose.
One day, reading some kind words from a mentee (how positive, thorough, and supportive he felt my feedback was), I had a huge a-ha and got a wild hair:
I decided to convene groups of women to offer a supportive place to share their struggles, doubts, and aspirations.
I wanted these women to know they were not alone, that they had a trusted guide and a caring community encouraging them, and that they could move beyond whatever was holding them back.
Soon after launching these groups, one of the women asked me if I'd coach her. Of course, I jumped at the chance!
Let me tell you: I floated out of that first coaching session on a ginormous adrenaline cloud. Something about it felt so right.
(But I also realized at that point that I knew very little about coaching, which is quite different from mentoring...so I immediately enrolled in a rigorous, top-notch program to learn how to actually be a coach :) I've since been awarded certification by the International Coach Federation – the gold standard for coaching.
Let me tell you: I floated out of that first coaching session on a ginormous adrenaline cloud. Something about it felt so right.
(But I also realized at that point that I knew very little about coaching, which is quite different from mentoring...so I immediately enrolled in a rigorous, top-notch program to learn how to actually be a coach :) I've since been awarded certification by the International Coach Federation – the gold standard for coaching.
Today, I've shifted into a career I love...
and have so enjoyed learning about being a business owner. I set my own hours and make time to do the things that are nourishing and flat-out fun - like hiking among the Pacific firs with my husband and little pup Poppy, downhill skiing, hanging out on a yoga mat, swimming in a lake at sunrise, and traveling.
and have so enjoyed learning about being a business owner. I set my own hours and make time to do the things that are nourishing and flat-out fun - like hiking among the Pacific firs with my husband and little pup Poppy, downhill skiing, hanging out on a yoga mat, swimming in a lake at sunrise, and traveling.
Since starting my coaching practice...
I've had the honor and delight of working with hundreds of wonderful human beings, helping them more fully accept themselves, take charge of their lives, confidently be who they are, and go after the things they most desire.
And the thing I tell them all is this:
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You don't have to stand on the sidelines of your own life, even in times of chaos and change. You can dig out from under all that's piled up over the years, untangle the fear and the doubt, get clear on what you want most, and gather the COURAGE to take the risks to become who you want to be. |
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